Sunday, August 19, 2007

piercing party!

I forgot about the biggest update of all! I finally got my nose pierced J Maha style! (on my left side like the tradition in Maharastra)
Some of you know I wanted to do it way back 4 years ago, and then again I desperately wanted to do it after 2 weeks here in India, but for one reason or another it took me until it was already half way through my time here.
The other week before our event we had a staff “piercing party” where we went out to Silver Street in the modern area of town and all got stuff done. Vivi and I got our noses pierced, Mary T got her ears re-pierced, Anna got her 2nd holes re-pierced, Christa got her tragus pierced, and CL got her tragus pierced on both ears and her belly button pierced so she can wear something elaborate and shiny on her wedding day in December! It was very exciting, and didn’t hurt nearly as much as I thought it would.
The fun part was getting reactions from all the local staff the next day. I went into to place my egg order at breakfast and Padma noticed but didn’t say anything to me. Apparently when I walked out the door she told the other ladies so when we showed off later on at breakfast it was already old news. It really truly is like a small town here – the local staff sometimes know things before I manage to hear about it, the rumor mill is in full swing here. But all in all the ladies were very impressed and even for a few days afterward people were still noticing.
Then later over chai Aruna mentioned that piercing is significant for a girl, and that we should give out sweets and get our “good names”. For those of you who don’t know, it is common for Indians to have pet names and good names. When I reserve something or formally meet someone they ask for my good name. So I told Aruna and Minakshi that I would give them sweets if they gave me a good Indian name. So over a long and hilarious chai break they came up with names for all of the staff. The other staff names are: Kavita, Venu, Aboli, Sarita, Saloni, and Monisha. And my good name is Jui (but pronounced like Zui) and it is a beautiful flower here in India. Pictures will be coming soon…

Monday, August 13, 2007

Aga Khan Palace

So, Education for All ended yesterday and half of the participants left that day. It was hard saying goodbye to such a great group - one of the best in my time here so far. But since the event was over I got some much needed time off! We spent the evening out with the rest of the participants who were still here and all the staff at Sizzlers, a restaurant that actually has beef - something I have been seriously missing out on! (Dad, when I come home you're gonna need to BBQ me up some fantastic meals!) The meal portions are so large that they really should be split with others, but since we had been looking forward to this for a week we all ate our own meal. Big mistake! haha. It was the most painfully delicious meal I'd had in ages. After a good meal with good friends and good beers I called it an early night. I had been reading Shantaram, a brilliant novel by Gregory David Roberts for the last few weeks (it's almost 1000 pages), and finally finished it! And there was one quote that was so good I wanted to share it,
"This is not like any other place. This is India. Everyone who comes here falls in love - most of us fall in love many times over. And the Indians, they love most of all. Your little friend may be beginning to love you. There is nothing strange in this. I say it from a long experience of this country, and especially this city (Mumbai). It happens often, and easily for the Indians. That is how they manage to live together, a billion of them, in reasonable peace...more than any other people in the world, the Indians know how to love one another". It's so true, its something you find time and time again - when people welcome you into their home, offer themselves to you easily and genuinely. It's something I've managed to find here at Sangam especially with the local staff. It has been slow getting them to become comfortable with me, but whenever I manage to have a joke with one of them, or one of the ladies notice when I am missing it reinforces the fact that India is a place ruled by the heart.

Anyway, today Christa and I had decided we would use our days off this week to discover the places in the city we had been wanting to see. So we started off at the Aga Khan Palace, which is where Gandhi was held and his ashes remain. It's this gorgeous building only like 15 minutes from Sangam, so I can't believe I didn't make the time to go see it until today.











The building had been converted into a museum that chronicled the life of Gandhi. It was really interesting to read about it, and see pictures and paintings depicting his life. There were personal affects of his wife left behind in the museum, and quotes from Gandhi were on plaques throughout the museum. It was really interesting walking through the grounds and reading the signs saying "Gandhi walked this path to the samadhi daily"...really cool but eerie at the same time. It was strange to be in the same place that someone so brilliant and influential lived. It made me think of this quote I once found of Gandhi's "I do not want my house to be walled on all sides and my windows to be stuffed. I want the cultures of all the lands to be blown about my house as freely as possible." It was a quote I saved a year or so ago because I thought it was a beautiful concept, but only after coming to India do I think I really get what was meant by it. Tomorrow I'm hoping to check out the Pataleshwar caves in the city. And I promise to post pictures soon, I lost my USB cord so until I find it you're outta luck...

Thursday, August 9, 2007

Splendour Country

So, after a long 12 day event with a 4 day kids camp Ambassadors for Children came to an end and we were itching for a BREAK!
So Mary T, Christa and I checked ourselves into the Splendour Country resort on the recommendation from our manager CL. We were told that it was beautiful and quiet and that’s about it – but it was enough for us. We hired a driver and headed out in the morning. It took about an hour and a half to get there, but it was a great drive through the city to parts I’ve never seen before and through the countryside. It was so gorgeous and green everywhere it was great. I think Mary T – who is from Ireland appreciated the green rolling hills more than anyone.
We drove past a dam and on the other side was this huge lake with some houses and other hotels littered along the hills. Our driver dropped us off and we checked out the grounds…incredible! The resort was built on the side of big hill and all around were these gorgeous mountains. There were a ton of steps leading down to the pool and dining area, which made the hike between our cottage and the pool seem like climbing the Himalayas but we survived. The pool was an infinity pool, the kind with no edge so it looks like you’re swimming in the ocean. In our case it looked like you were swimming out into mountains but it was still tons and tons of fun. The resort was completely deserted so we basically spent our days hanging out at the pool, reading books and soaking up the silence. We had delicious Indian and Chinese food there, with actual spice to it which was nice. During event time at Sangam the food is basically spice-free because the participants can’t all handle it, so its nice to get some spicy stuff in the mix outside of work. Sadly we only had 2 days at the resort and had to leave the second afternoon. Our co-worker Minakshi’s brother-in-law owns and manages a restaurant on the other side of Pune so on our drive back home she called and recommended we stop in for some chai. Its those kind of invites that remind you how incredible the community culture in India is. It’s not a rare occurance to meet someone once and be welcomed into their home. So we stopped at Sandeep’s restaurant and had the largest and most delicious cup of chai I’ve had in my two months here. It was nice to get to meet someone in Minakshi’s family as well. So after a brief chat with Sandeep we heading back home to Sangam. The resort had worked its magic on me and we came back so relaxed I was practically sleep walking through the halls until I hit the bed!
I also got a chance to check out a homeopath last week before our event started, it was very interesting. I thought since I’m so comfortable with doctors back home I would be fine, but as I sat down in her office I got nervous. It was interesting to have a doctor who wanted to listen to the full details of their patient, and it was funny to hear some of the questions she asked. I had started to get a little cold so I was asking her to help me with that and the questions that came we’re pretty unique:
-do you crave fish?
-do you like sweet foods or salty foods?
-when you perspire does it leave a stain on white clothing? (that was my favourite)
And she asked a ton of other questions, some really in depth ones about my life, others about personal relationships, it was cool. I have to admit I walked out of there feeling unsure about the whole thing, but after taking the medicines she gave me my cold died down a bit. I think it was a really cool experience, but I’m still undecided on how I feel about the whole thing.
This week has been busy with “Education for All” our event that included spending 3 mornings at different schools in the city. It’s been a lot of fun hanging out with the kids from 1st-10th standard (grade). We still have a few more days of the event left so I should probably go work on sessions and get things together for our Bollywood movie night tonight!
Love and miss you all…xo

Friday, July 27, 2007

Got Milk?

This past event - Ambassadors for Children - was a 12 day event, which actually turned into a 14 day event with people arriving early and leaving late...and it drained me of a lot of my energy! I think with being sick, and it being the 2 month mark - everything had just seemed to lose its excitement and I was missing home more and more.
So the event started out - 50 people, lots of fun and energy! We had people from the UK, Scotland, USA, and India (3 different parts). So it was really fun to have Indian girls, to have people to help with the language barrier and get rickshaws...it was awesome. The event was great, we did the basic Indian culture/Pune introduction with them for a few days, and then started planning for the childrens camp we were running for 3 days. The kids came from Mobile Creches, an organization with hundreds of centres around Pune. The centres were a daycare for kids of construction workers around the city. Since the kids move around a lot, they try to keep spots open at the major development areas to accomodate the needs of the children. We all got a chance to visit one of the Mobile Creches near Sangam before the event to understand what the organization does and meet some of the kids.
So the participants really took over camp which left myself and the other PA's with a little bit more downtime as we weren't the coordinators and instead were just sort of finding resources and lending a hand. However I wasn't around for much of the kids camp to help out because on the second day they were here I got really really sick.
I had the afternoon off, and was taking it easy and when I woke up from siesta something was off, and I ended up being sick for hours and hours until the first aiders here decided it had gone too far and called the doctor to come see me. He recommended they take me to the hospital so I could get something to stop me from being sick, which was a good idea since by the time they tried to take me down the stairs and out the hallway to the car I had apparently turned a yellow/green colour. haha. So I went to the hospital and got the shot for my nausea. Turns out I got the shot from this cute male nurse who was there a few days earlier when I had taken a participant to the hospital for a check up. So there I am, yellowish green, completely dishevelled, and the cute guy recognises me! ugh. Just my luck. So after the shot, and the cute guy I was feeling a bit better and since the hospital had no beds available we went back to Sangam.
I expected to be tired, but better in the morning. Turns out I was completely off for 3 days afterwards because I just couldnt get back to normal. It was really bizarre - and now I'm gonna go check out a homeopath to see if I can build up my immune system or something because I don't ever want to be sick like that again!
So ya, if you're wondering why you havent heard from me...thats why!
So about halfway through my sickness after days of lying around in bed or watching tv I started SERIOUSLY craving things. Number one: a giant, ice cold, glass of skim milk! I couldnt believe it, but in 2 months thats the first time I had craved it. Then it was hot chocolate, Kraft Dinner, and gummies!
Ironically enough, karma must have come back around to me because that morning I got a call from one of the staff saying they had recieved a call from a guy from Toronto who knew my Dad and was coming to drop something off! So like an hour later two of my Dad's coworkers came to the centre with a package. I was still completely sick and not working - but I managed to fake healthy for a few moments to chat with them. They have a subcontracting business here in Pune so they were checking in on some of the business before heading out a few days later. So we chatted, they passed along the package, took a picture of me to make sure my Dad knew I was safe and alive and headed out. I don't think they had even reached the front steps before I started to well up with tears. It was the same feeling as when I am sick back home and talking to my Mom, I just lost all control. It was the best gift I have ever ever gotten! It had notes from my Dad, and two sisters, with a book, some movies I had requested, and candies that reminded me of being a little kid back home! It was incredible. Made me realise just how much I miss home, and how great it will be to come back in the fall.
So the rest of my sick days were spent watching the movies Karen sent me, reading a brilliant book called Shantaram (highly recommend it for anyone interested in Indian culture) and staring out my window fantasizing about air conditioning! haha.
I managed to get better yesterday, for the last day of the event...I seriously owe everyone I work with for picking up my slack for days, they were amazing!
We're just saying goodbye to the last of the group this afternoon, and then Christa and I are heading out to Splendour Country a resort somewhere nearby. We don't know much about it, but it's got an infinity pool, the last volunteers raved about it, and someone got married there...so we figure it must be nice! Hopefully I'll have some beautiful pictures to show when I get back :)

Sunday, July 15, 2007

Mumbai...

Mumbai...

what do I say. It was the best break I've had yet! The three volunteers and I along with Mary T and Darshana went to Mumbai for 2 days. Darshana is from Mumbai so along with her friend Jimmy we had our own personal tour guides for our stay in the immense city. We arrived late Tuesday night after a five hour bus ride into the city. Jimmy picked us up at our bus stop and took us to get food and tour us around a little before taking us to the Maharashtra Guide Centre in Mumbai. It was a small building with one gymnasium, and 2 basic dorm style rooms with beds and a fridge and bathroom. It was not exactly a luxury hotel, but at their asking price of 10 rupees a night (25 cents canadian, that they didnt even make us pay) we couldn't complain! The space around the centre was really nice though, it backed onto a huge park where lots of people played cricket, jogged, etc. And right across the street were Cafe Coffee Day and Barista, the two coffee chains Christa and I have become addicted to. Also it was about 3 minutes away from the sea, so if you walked to the end of the street you could check out the view. So that night the 5 of us set up in the dorm, and I got to re-live my childhood days sleeping on the top bunk again.
The next morning we met up with Jimmy and Darshana, Jimmy was fabulous and drove us around town during our stay or lent us his car and a driver so we could travel in style...it made the trip so wonderful! Getting away from rickshaws for a few days was amazing.
So we drove around town for a while stopping at some of the big landmarks. We checked out the hanging gardens (where I got to touch my first elephant...too bad it was made out of a bush), to the gateway of india, to chowpatty beach, saw some churches and temples, etc. It was a great tour. We had lunch in the fashion district and afterwards went for some bargain shopping at a market along the street. I got some great deals on beautiful jewellery and clothing!





In the afternoon we went to this *beautiful* mosque, Haji Ali Dargah. It's in the sea, with a long walkway up to the building. We drove past in the morning during high tide and saw the waves crashing up and over the walkway, so we went back in the afternoon during low tide. It was my favourite part of the whole trip. This mosque has thousands and thousands of visitors every week.


It was just such a beautiful space, we saw the shrine inside the mosque, and then wandered around on the rocks down to the sea. The view looking back on the city along the coast is beautiful. There's something about how things are set up here that makes me understand the communion between spirtuality and atmosphere. You will always find incredible temples, mosques, etc. at these incredibly beautiful and important spots in cities.
So after spending a lot of time there, picking sea shells, and revelling in the fact that we were at the edge of a foreign sea we went back to our place at the Bharat Scouts and Guides centre and freshed up for the evening.


That night we had Frankies for dinner, this delicious chicken thing in a tortilla...so greasy and delicious. Street meat is always the best, back home or in India.
Then we headed out for the evening, we decided we would check out Chowpatty beach at night to see the "Queens necklace" which is what people call the coastline at night with all the lights, its very beautiful, and again we got the chance to revel in the fact that we were thousands of miles away. We hung out on the beach, and took the oppportunity to sink our toes into the sand and took our first dip (feet only) in the Arabian Sea! Then we were going to go out on a night cruise, but Darshana got a call from her niece who reminded her that if we didnt go visit them that night that she would be at school when we stopped by. So we headed across town to Darshana's family's house and met her brother, her sister in law and her fabulous niece! It was fun to hang out and spend time with a family, but it made me miss my friends and family back home and the comfort of talking to people who know you best. We also got to see Victoria Terminus, the train station that has the most beautiful architecture, and some other spots on the drive home.
The next day we did some more sight seeing, we checked out the ritzy areas in town, and because we had asked Jimmy to point out all the Bollywood stars houses - be obliged and took us past where a bunch of them live. We did a bit more shopping that day for those of us who hadnt spent enough (me, me, me...haha) and then after some more sights before headed back to the centre to pack up and make the bus back to Pune.
It was really sad to get back into town and have to take care of ourselves. Jimmy and Darshana had been such amazing tour guides and friends that we didnt want to say goodbye to Jimmy. It also didnt help that we had to trade in driving around by car to going back to the rickshaw.
We start our next event "Ambassadors for Children" tomorrow morning...and while it will be lots of fun I am wishing I had more free time before it starts. We have 50 participants for 12 days, and for 4 of those 12 we will also have 25 kids between the ages of 8-12 for the kids camp that is a part of the event. It is bound to be a hectic event, and I think I need a few more day to prepare myself for the chaos that is bound to come with facilitating 75 people!
Oh well, all in a days work I suppose...

Monday, July 9, 2007

Palkhi





Palkhi, Palkhi, PALKHI!




oh man. today was such a fun day...




it was a blast to have the morning/afternoon off and just enjoy myself and unwind by hanging out on the front wall.


so the morning started off by jolting myself awake when i rolled over at 9:30 and heard music and people outside...i jumped out of bed thinking I was missing the big pilgrimage! So i jumped up, woke up Christa...and turns out it was just the beginnings of the crowds. So Anna, Christa and I wandered out to the front wall with all my snacks and a blanket, and climbed up to check out the action. Its probably like a 6 foot wall, so we were high enough up to see a bit down the road where everyone was coming from.


So we hung out for a while, mainly undisturbed, tons of stares but i mean we were 3 white girls sitting on a wall watching the pilgrimage - so its only fair they watch us too.
We enjoyed the action, observing all the clothing (the only time i've seen so many men in traditional dress), the different elements of the group that were clearly for the pilgrimage - like the men at the front of each group holding the flags, one woman in each group wearing what looked like a flower pot as a hat - with a tulsi plant in it, etc. It was great to people watch for a while and sort things out just by watching.


It didnt take long for people to start coming up to us, kids mainly asking what our names are, where we're from, etc. It was okay at the beginning but every once in a while it turned into a crowd at our front gate just staring at us - taking pictures with their camera phones, etc. It was strange that there was a *huge* parade of people walking past them and they were fixated on us. Check out this picture - it shows it perfectly. The groups of men were taking a break from the walk about 15 feet in front of us, and instead of watching the people walking, their backs were to the action and instead they were watching us. Obviously being a foreigner and standing out in the crowd is something I'm still getting used to.


Anyway the crowds started to get larger and larger, and I'm sure my pictures do not capture it - but the people were constantly flowing past us. We had an early lunch so we could head over to Datta Temple and be there for the action when the chariot brought the idol to the temple for one hour to stop and allow people to recieving blessings by touching the idol. So in typical foreigner fashion we go to the doors, Aruna talks to someone (her and Darshana were being our escorts) and suddenly we're cruising through the middle of the temple where no one else is allowed(these moments make up for the awkward stares and being confronted constantly). So we got to go sit up on the stage section behind where they set the idol. When the chariot arrives it is far more elaborate than I had expected and the crowds around it were intense. They were beating people back to get the idol off the chariot and into the temple, and then once it was in there was some chaos as they tried to restore order and get people who had snuck in back out into the lines. They had these lines set up to get people through to touch the idols feet and then out the door. It was wild - the people were going so quickly through the lines - no one was walking it was jogging or at least shuffling yourself through as quick as you could. Again, since we were foreigners and Sangam is nearby and people know who we are - we got to jump into the front of the line after about 20 minutes. It was cool to get to participate in something that is so important to the people in Maharahstra. People were literally lifting their babies into the air, and passing them through the crowd to touch the idol...they were basically crowd surfing - it was so dangerous but it worked and all the babies got blessed.


Anyway it was a really fun day - a nice way to unwind and get sucked into the energy and excitement in the area. Its strange, after just a few hours the entire street had gone back to being used by a few rickshaws, bikes and bicycles, no people congesting the area. They've all moved on to other places in Pune and beyond...

And soon I will be moving on as well - Mumbai for some fun on Wednesday and Thursday! woo!

******UPDATE*******

So turns out one of those wonderful people taking our pictures worked for the newspaper, and there is a picture of Christa and Anna posing with my purse as I - like the stupid foreigner I am - had to run back into Sangam for a coke. seriously!! I missed my 15 min of fame...my new goal is to get myself in the newspaper - not just my purse.

Sunday, July 8, 2007

Holistic Living

This past week has been busy with our event Holistic Living. It was a really interesting event and lots of fun to experience another side of the culture and life in India.
Holistic Living was all about being aware of how body, mind, and soul are connected and enriching your life.
Some of the cool sessions we did were yoga, meditation, laughter club/laughing yoga, a panel on holistic living where we had professionals from ayervedic, homeopathic and traditional medicines, a spirituality session with a silent hour for reflection…stuff like that.
We had a great group of participants from 3 travel groups...but all from the USA. It was cool, made the group a little less multicultural and sometimes those are the fun and funny parts. As staff we're constantly entertained by what we all call things in our countries...today Anna called her mouth a "gob" and I had a HUGE revelation where I finally understood the name of the candy "gobstoppers"...things like that! haha.
It's been great, and stressful, and hard all at different points. Since we are going into our sixth week here (I can't believe it's been that long) we're all done settling in, and so as everyone knows all the nicities are wearing off. Its hard too that we all live, work and play together...but hopefully we'll all make it through!

Tomorrow is Pulkhi, which is this huge religious pilgrimage thing that happens here. People from all over Maharashtra state (and all over India) come to participate in this 15 day walk, 300 kms from Alandi which is the town about an hour away from us to another part of the state. The best part is since I live on Alandi Road they walk right past our gate. Literally. 225,000 people going by...it's gonna be amazing. They stop right at Datta Temple which is all of 100 feet away from Sangam for about an hour or so to participate in some rituals I believe and eat, etc. The area around here has been changing every hour. Yesterday I went out and Datta Temple which is half in ruins due to road construction here was being temporarily prepared for the event, getting decorated, it has lights all over the place, etc. For the last few days we've been able to spot the pilgrims all over town, but the best was in one of the nearby school fields there were a group of pilgrims with all their sheep, horses, etc. It was awesome. Then today when I went out there were banners everywhere, little stages being set up, temporary spaces being made for people to sleep overnight, they were spraying the area for mosquitos so I'm assuming that a lot of people will be staying here overnight.
I'm so excited to see what happens! Hopefully it won't monsoon rain tomorrow, because rain or shine I will be sitting out on our wall watching it all happen! I heard last year the staff went over to Datta temple and joined in on the fun as well so I am hoping to make Darshana or Aruna be my escort so I can experience it all. I'll hopefully get pictures up of it quickly so everyone who has been here can see the crazy crowds and stuff! Theres a website here that explains a little more about it http://www.aryabhatt.com/fast_fair_festival/Festivals/Palkhi%20Festival.htm

Then on Wednesday/Thursday we're heading to Mumbai. 6 of us are going and Darshana is going to be our own personal tour guide which is a-mazing. She is from Mumbai so she's a real catch for this trip :) We're gonna check out the basic tourist stuff and then her guiding centre, her home, things like that. I'm really excited, it should be a great crash course in Mumbai - or a great tour if I never get the time to head back there for longer.

Wanted to end this post with my new favourite poem. One of our participants wrote this during our silent hour from the Spirituality session. We gave them an hour where they could express themselves however they wanted, paint, read, draw, write, dance, play, etc. And Gaby wrote this beautiful piece...

Sangam

Wake early in the morning
To laugh

Walk barefoot
In the home

Eat six times a day
With your hands

Honk please
Before you pass

Beware
The falling coconuts

No matter how poor
own clothing rich in colour

Love the god
Inside each person

Heal the soul
And the body will follow

Leave the front door
Open always

Come together
Like the rivers

-Gabriella March

Each and every time I read this (and it's only been a day since I've heard it) I realize the beauty of being here. And I try to remind myself to stop stressing, find patience and enjoy the chaos. Sometimes it's hard being secluded here in Sangam, away from the life outside our gates - but this makes me recognize how lucky we are to have this safe haven in the busy city. Its wonderful to constantly have new visitors around because they remind me to keep appreciating things like it was the first time...